Relationship Of Husband and Wife In The Light Of Islam

The religion of Islam came with the law and granted to the man and woman each his just right. The woman does not suffer injustice. Islam made the woman to be pure. Whether wife, mother or sister, Islam granted the woman an important role in the service of society for the education of future generations in accordance with the guidance of the Act and guided the eminent Messenger SAWW.

The couple’s relationship between man and woman must be based on love and mercy for each spouse find comfort with each other. Islam has made obligatory, although guided by its principles, women’s rights to her husband. If people were working according to these principles, there would be a bliss and happiness and love between the spouses last. Allah ordered the man to act with charity toward his wife and stated in Quran

“Behave with them with charitable” [Surah an- Nica ‘/’ Ayah 19].

It is the blessing of Allah Almighty to a man that he gave him a woman as a companion in their life and mother of his children. Thus, the wife is neither a slave nor one that suffers injustice of the husband. There is no oppression or domination between man and wife, but rather love, understanding and mutual respect. The Holy prophet PBUH stated that in the lower world, there are goods and among the best property there is the virtuous woman.

There are many tips value and rules for a good marriage that would lead to smooth relationship between husband and wife and by which the husband will win the love of his wife and her attention. Of all other things, a man should honor his wife. She is indeed the mother of his children, the custodian of his secret. It is required that a man respects his wife, loves her,  takes care of her and be gentle and merciful to her. He should not let his ego come in between their relationship or act in a tyrannical way that would hurt her.  The Messenger of Allah stated that:

‘’The best of you are those who are best to their wives. And I am the best of you with his wives’’.

Whoever wants to be modeled as the Messenger, he should be gentle and kind to his wife. The eminent Prophet Muhammad PBUH recommended a good life together with your wife, to endure what she could do to ignore certain failures that could come from it. The Messenger of Allah was the living example of a perfect husband. So it is strongly suggested to follow the path of wisdom, tenderness and mercy with your woman. Do not load your wife things she can’t stand, be at his side during difficulties and you will gain her love and respect.